Marriage Preparation – Wedding Guidelines

Contact: Parish Office

Ministry Mission Statement:  Marriage Preparation helps engaged couples prepare spiritually for their marriage and their wedding day.

Current Ministry Activities: Giving comprehensive wedding and music guidelines; conducting an all day Saturday Pre-Cana Program for the couple; arranging for the couple to meet with a certified couple for FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding and Study) Sessions; inviting each couple into the facilitator’s home at dates and times that are convenient for them for a total of four meetings.

Marriage preparation should start six months before the wedding date. The parish staff is available to help engaged couples prepare spiritually for their marriage and their wedding day.

The first step in the process is contacting the Parish office for information regarding the requirements for scheduling a wedding at St. Francis. Once the requirements have been verified, a wedding date can be scheduled. Next an interview will be scheduled with the couples who will be given comprehensive wedding and music guidelines, as well as a booklet, “Together for Life,” for information about the wedding liturgy and choices of scripture readings. They will also be asked to meet with the Director of Music Ministry.

Couples will be asked to participate in an all day Saturday Pre-Cana Program. The objective of Pre-Cana is to give engaged couples time to think about their marriage in relation to the Church. The presenting couple will discuss the sacrament of matrimony in accordance with the clear teaching of the Catholic Church.

Additionally, engaged couples will meet with a certified couple for FOCCUS Sessions. FOCCUS (Facilitating Open Couple Communication, Understanding and Study) was developed to reflect the value and ideals of marriage as sacred and deals with topics of permanency, fidelity, unconditional love, openness to children and shared faith in God. It is also a process to help couples learn more about themselves and their unique relationship.

Each couple is invited into the facilitator’s home at dates and times that are convenient for them. There are a total of four meetings. This one-on-one creates an informal, comfortable environment allowing an opportunity for open and honest communication with direct feedback. Through a comprehensive survey, areas of strengths and those needing growth are identified. The facilitators offer the benefit of their marriage experience to give insight to the realities of married life, and strategies for successful communication and conflict resolution. The development of a mutual prayer life is encouraged as a powerful force in marriage. The engaged couple is reminded of the seriousness of the covenant they are making and the graces that will flow from the sacrament they will receive.

St. Francis by the Sea Catholic Church – Wedding & Marriage Preparation Forms:

Wedding Guidelines

Marriage Preparation – Parish Member

Marriage Preparation – In Diocese – non-parishioner

Marriage Preparation – Out of Diocese – non-parishioner

Wedding Music Planning Guide

Rehearsal / Wedding Time Frame Guidelines

Wedding Photography Guidelines

Statement of Agreement for Weddings

Catholic Engaged Encounter Weekends - 2018

Catholic Engaged Encounter Weekends for 2018 will be on the following dates:

St. Andrew's Catholic Church - Clemson, SC - July 21st - 22nd

St. Michael's Catholic Church - Murell's Inlet, SC - October 6th - 7th

Please click on this link to visit the website for more information and to register.

Marriage Encounter Weekend


The emphasis of Worldwide Marriage Encounter is on communication between husband and wife, who spend a weekend together away from the distractions and the tensions of everyday life, to concentrate on each other.

It's not a retreat, nor a marriage clinic, nor group sensitivity. It's a unique approach aimed at revitalizing

Christian Marriage.

This is a time for you and your spouse to be alone together. To rediscover each other and together focus on your relationship for an entire weekend. Every marriage deserves that kind of attention!

  • Rediscover the spark that was there on your wedding day!
  • Rediscover the best friend you had when you were first married!
  • Join the millions of couples worldwide who have learned how to keep their marriage vibrant and aliv             


Jul 20-22, 2018                                              August 3 - 5, 2018

(non-Residential)                                          Sheraton Chapel Hill Hotel

St. Philip Neri                                                One Europa Drive

292 Munn Rd E.                                             Chapel Hill, NC 27517

Fort Mill, SC 29715

Questions or need more info? 

Apply by phone - 803-810-9602

WWME Info -  803-810-9602



A Lifeline for Married Couples

The Retrouvaille Program is for Married Couples Facing Difficult Challenges in their Relationship

  • A Marriage program that helps couples restore their marriage and rebuild a loving relationship
  • A Christian marriage program, Catholic in origin, where couples of all faiths or no faith background are encourage to attend.
  • Primarily a practical program to improve communication, build stronger marriages, and help couples reconnect.

Presenters are not trained marriage counselors, but rather couples sharing their personal stories of marital struggles and the tools they used to rediscover their love.

Upcoming Dates

July 13, 2018 - Orlando, FL

July 27, 2018 - Tampa, FL

For more information, please click on this link.

Phone:  954-612-1025

Email Retrouvaille

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